For many, DatingForMarriage.com is their first dating site, while others have dated in real life, and are not turning to an online dating site for the hopes of finding their other half. "They must be doing something right" Most people may be scared or either nervous and unsure of what to expect exactly. That is why DatingForMarriage.com is offering the following advice. Christian Dating Single Advice. We can understand why most people would be nervous. The trick is to stay calm and not allow those nerves to ruin your date. Here are a few tips to help you stay on an even keel. Keep calm and carry on. Keep yourself busy the day of the big event by doing things that bring you happiness and that keeps you motivated. Whether you like to play video games or take long walks at the beach or whatever it is that bring you enjoyment. Take advantage of it. Watch your favorite movie or take some time to meditate. The idea is to burn those hours away without thinking too much about the upcoming date. Get plenty of rest the night before, stay away from alcohol, read a good book, or even your favorite bible verse. If the weather permits, go out for a walk with your dog, something even this small will help past the time. Just be yourself, you don't have to change yourself, you will find more people attracted to you. Many people put on a façade - that is the last thing you do - half the time they backfire and you might offend your date. If you find yourself trying too hard, pause - breath - relax - and count to 10 in your head. If that person doesn't like who you are, its time to move on - its better off finding this on the first date, not the third or fourth one in. God is always in control, never forget that. If it is meant to be a match, it will happen. It is really easy to forget all the ups, downs, and in-betweens we all go through in life, but you got to leave it in God's hands. He can take all the pressure off your shoulders, if you allow him to.
One of the things that can guarantee a date to either fail or be a very long evening in speculation is the tendency to control how you want the date to go. This is very common is young men, the always wants to play the hero, playing out different scenarios that they can jump in and save the damsel in distress. They worry that they will not be witty enough, that they'll forget some of there skills, and chivalry. Do not think about how you want the date to go, just allow it to happen. The both of you have already decided upon a casual date, a nice button down shirt with a tie, or a nice casual shirt with no tie. Your date might even appreciate the smell and thought of the aftershave, or cologne that you put on. Men get nervous but that is a good sign, you are stepping outside of your comfort zone and doing something new. When you dance, be the leader. Allow you date to just go with the flow. Many man will try to make all of the decisions on a date, allow it to happen but try and be involved in the decision making. You're date should have some say in what ya'll do. Do not talk about yourself all night, and dominate the conversation.
First off, we all know you want to look cute, but be careful of wearing anything that reveals too much. A good rule is to dress as if you were going to a job interview, - figure it being your first impression, also good manners are always key. This type of conservative apparel will allow you to look fantastic. Prepare yourself for a man that is nervous, shy, and unsure how to act. Studies do show that men, a lot of the time, do tend to get much more nervous and worked up before the first date. If your date forgets to open the door for you, or pulls out your chair for you, he might be nervous or not well mannered. If there is any hesitation or forgetfulness than yes, he is nervous, or just not interested. - stay calm and carry on. You are better off breaking the ice by letting him know that you are also nervous and that it is fine, cause I am as well.
If you are the age of 18 or 19 years old, chances are that you haven't dated much. Ask for advice, speak with a parent and/or your pastor for advice on proper social etiquette, manners, and how to act around someone of the opposite sex. The number one best chaperone that you can have by your side would be God. He is always in our hearts, and knows suggestive tips and tricks for us to follow and learn. Your first date is always a special one, seek guidance from God, and cherish the moment. Always know to relax, and enjoy it as much as you can. Remember always put God first.
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